Love(?)

Love isn't easy, love never is. Anyone can say those three words that we all long to hear but it takes courage to show it. You don't just say I do love you I want to be with you. Are you willing to put in the effort? How do you know if that person truly loves you? A lot of people say things like the ultimate show of love is through marriage and through children. But is that really it? Love isn't just a chemical in our brain, that makes us feel like it. Love is sacrifice, not just communication, not just compromising but actual sacrifice. Are you willing to sacrifice your career to stay with the one you love, how about giving up the things that you have been doing since you were a kid, just for that one person you love? Love is being the best you can be, and more. Always enhancing your talents and not just working at a job but in fact working towards a career for that person. To cut ties with old you so you can be better not just for you but for your partner too. To truly say you love someone is to be loyal to fight for that person and never taking your eyes off of them. Even in a fight your willing to stand your ground and work it out. Anyone can say this is true and I do that but do you really look at what you had think back on the memories and look at where you are, was it love? People mistake love for tolerance which can be mistaken for each other? Just saying I love you isn't enough to say those words and to cry when you hear it no more comes down to this. Did you really put in your all, did you devote not just your heart but your soul your body into it. The scars from this are you hiding them or showing them? If your able to replace that person in a matter of days then your not just cheating yourself but that person as well you dont love them, they are just a place holder as you wait to decide if when you are going to go back to your love. A lot of people say things like it just doesnt work. Ask yourself this, did you fight for them, how many bullets did they take for you, how many did you take for them. When they cried night and day did you dry their tears? How many times did they dry yours. When you had a rough day and they wanted to go out did they not stay back and comfort you did they not make you feel special. Love isn't something you can say and just say act like your in it. Think about it did they change everything in a blink of an eye for you? When you gave them no choice but to leave did they stay or go? In your darkest moments was your love there brighten up your day, or did they let you sulk alone. Have you ever looked into their eyes and saw the pain that they were in but it was masked by the very sight of you? Love isn't to betray why lie to them why lie to yourself when you know you can make it work when all you have to do is take that one just doesnt have to be a huge one just one step forward and say I want to help this is what we do. Everyone says that they love this new person or that they dont love that one person who is willing to take a literal physical bullet for them then dont say I wont forget you. Because inside you know you love them you know that your a match but your to scared to admit it. You should never put your selfish desires over your love that one true love. Because If you do happiness will never come to you.

Let thy fountain be blessed: and rejoice with the wife of thy youth. -proverbs

Meaning let your wife be a fountain of blessing for you. Rejoice in the wife of your youth.

It can go either way meaning your husband as well. Love is something that shouldn't be taken lightly especially for someone who has devoted their who life to you cooking you dinner tending to your needs. It's not to suppress you it's not to make you feel useless it's to care for you, it's to show you as a person that your lovable that your his priority. So when he/she/it asks to sleep in just for a while its for the strength to give you their all so that they can be the best for you so their love for you grows.

Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the Lord .-Proverbs

Meaning The man who finds a wife finds a treasure, and he receives favor from the Lord.

Same thing for a husband. So I ask think about this if you ever say you love to someone in a romantic sexual way are you sure, does this person bring the best out in you? Do they put their all in it for you?